Updates on the lives of Jonny, Mallory, Kaleb, Aliyah, and Isaiah!

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Time Flies!

This post is going to mainly be for me, so that I can read back through it a few months from now and actually remember some fun details that I know I'll forget!  Kaleb and Aliyah are growing up and changing so fast.  I wish there was some way to capture each stage in a way that we could go back and watch them and really get a feel for their fun personalities and silly quirks.  Hopefully home videos and blog posts and very infrequent journal entries will at least give us a taste of that.












Since the last time I posted was October, there is a lot to catch up on! We'll see how much I can cover...

Halloween:  Kaleb was an alligator and Aliyah was a ladybug.  We started the night with the annual trunk or treat for Sugar 6th ward, and then went to Grandma and Ron's for chili and homemade rootbeer.  Kaleb was sick of his costume by then, so he didn't do any actual trick-or-treating but we didn't mind that too much :)










Thanksgiving:  We spent Thanksgiving with the Parkinson's this year.  It was a few days full of delicious food, very little sleep, and lots of fun :)
















Christmas:  In some ways we feel like we didn't really get a Christmas.  It was a very emotion-filled week, and we had very sick kids throughout the holidays, but there was a lot of fun and sweet memory making in the mix as well.  Since Christmas was with the Schleg's this year we had a little party with the Parkinson's a couple days before.  On the 23rd Carly, my Mom and I got to head to Idaho Falls for a quick shopping trip since Carly had just found out she'll be having a little BOY in June!  We are very excited to meet this sweet little Paxon :)  That day was followed by lots of play time and our gift exchange.  The highlight of the night was probably when all the men in the family (and Sarah and Emi) opened their ukuleles!







For Christmas Eve with the Schleg's, we had a wonderful dinner complete with sparkling cider and ate by candlelight in the new room.  Afterwards, everyone took part in a beautiful nativity program.  We got started a little late though, so by the end we had lost most of our shepherds and animals and Ron became the angel.  Following the program, we took Kaleb and Aliyah upstairs to open their Christmas Eve presents.  They opened their jammies from Grammy, and their blanket and stuffed animal from us.









Christmas morning finally came and the kids had a few minutes to see what Santa brought before it was time to throw ourselves together and dash to church.  Through the rest of the day we really had a blast, just relaxing and enjoying each other.  The kids had so much time to play with their new toys and have fun cousin time.   We finished the night with our Schleg family gift exchange.  By the end of that, Kaleb was throwing up and had almost constant diarrhea.  He had been really sick 2 days before and hadn't felt great since, but for some reason it really hit hard again that night.  After about and hour of that, we decided to head home.  After a couple of hours at home, Kaleb was so completely miserable and we were wondering if we should take him to the hospital.  He had hardly eaten a thing throughout the day and the day before, yet he continued to have diarrhea so we were worried about him getting dehydrated.  We decided to run to Grammy's house so that he could soak in a warm bath for a while (his little bottom was so raw and we only have showers).  On the way out Kaleb fell asleep, so we went back home and he slept through the night!  Aliyah did as well, and it was such a blessing for all of us. Unfortunately by Tuesday the nasty sickness had set in really bad for Aliyah, so we had the same ordeal with her for about 3 days. It felt like such a nightmare of a week, but we survived!









It's funny, because here I am writing this post on a Sunday afternoon, home for the day with 2 sick kiddos.  Luckily this time it is just runny noses and coughs.  Although wiping noses can get old, I would take that over throw up and diarrhea any day!



So a quick recap of January: This is in some ways a crazy semester, and in some ways a more relaxed one.  This is Jonny's last semester of classes, so he doesn't really feel much pressure to get A's.  He has all of his applications in, and now we are just waiting to hear back from the schools.  So far we have an acceptance letter from Concordia with a $5000 scholarship offer, and an acceptance letter from Willamette with an $8000 scholarship offer.  Jonny is also on the wait list at Washington and Lee, and Lewis and Clark.   We are anxious to go through the decision process and start making plans so that we can get a clearer picture of what the next 3 years will look like, but our only choice is to be patient!



Jonny's class schedule doesn't allow him to be home as much during my office time, which makes for a very stressed momma on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday!  It is simply too much to try to keep both kids happy and maintain a professional office.  So...I am turning in my two weeks notice tomorrow.  Our plan is to move in with Jonny's family for a few months to get us through this last phase of schooling.  Jonny will start an internship in April, and then probably sometime in August we will be heading off on a new adventure!







So, I know this post is becoming quite the novel.  If I would just get better at updating things more often, it wouldn't have to be so long!  To finish things off, I just want to write a blip on each of the kids.  These are going to be those proud mom, possibly annoying to others, types of details but I want to remember this fun time with them and my observations...so there is your warning. 

Kaleb:  I absolutely love the stage Kaleb is in right now.  He always has a lot to say (at least when he is around Jonny and I, he still gets pretty shy around other people), and I love the way he talks.  He has started really emphasizing certain words, such as "and then, we were going to play cars." It is such a little thing, but it is so cute :)  Kaleb loves cars and stuffed animals most right now.  From October to December he was on a total cars kick, and although he still loves them, he isn't quite as obsessed.  Every night and frequently throughout the day he has to gather all of his stuffed animals and he hugs them and says "Oh, I love these stuffed animals," and he throws them around and just has a lot of fun with them.  He recently started having the boy ones give the girl ones kisses.  We have been working for about a month on teaching Kaleb about the heroes from the Book of Mormon.  He loves learning about them, and I think it is so awesome how quickly he is picking it all up.  We have hero cards, and he can go through and name all 14 of them and tell details of why they are heroes.  He is also doing such a great job at learning the alphabet and recognizing the letters.  He is such a smart little kid, and it makes it so fun to teach him.  He is also a very caring, sweet big brother.  I am amazed at some of the little things he does to watch out for Aliyah.  Although, I must say, there are some things we are working on.  He has become pretty bossy and has a hard time sharing certain toys with his little sis.









Aliyah:  Little miss Aliyah just hit the 10 month mark and I have to say I am really excited for the stage she is entering.  Her little personality is coming out so much lately, and I love it!  She loves to dance - her little legs instantly start bouncing whenever music comes on.  She is also beginning to love baby dolls.  When she sees one, she picks it up and gives it hugs over and over and pats it on the head.  Her favorite toy is generally anything that Kaleb is playing with, which can be very frustrating for Kaleb!  A few weeks ago she hit a point where she would no longer go to sleep for me.  All of a sudden, our system just wouldn't work, but as soon as I would hand her to Jonny she would just melt in his arms.  So, she prefers Jonny for nap time and bed time, but outside of that I'm the preferred parent.  She cries as though her world is going to end as soon as I walk out of sight.  It is fun to have her interacting more, and I know it will just keep getting more fun.  Aliyah started crawling right around Christmas, and is now working toward walking.  She cruises the furniture and is getting more confident as she moves around.  She will be a very happy girl when she hits the one year mark and can eat most everything we are eating.  Aliyah adores Kaleb, but doesn't have very much patience for all the affection he gives her.  We call Aliyah our little lion because she has such wild hair and she is so feisty!















So there is my not so quick recap of the last 4 months.  As we prepare to end this phase and begin a new one, I am nervous and stressed and so excited.  It is going to be wonderful to just be mom, and not have to worry about 97 boys and just everything that comes with being a manager.  We feel so blessed to have had the opportunities we've had here and we are so, so grateful to the Schleg's for providing us with a home for the summer!

Friday, October 7, 2011

10 Happy Things

Being a mom is all about simple joys that may seem insignificant to others, but really make life worth living for me.  The life I live is in no way glamorous or pampered, but I love it!  I receive so much joy and fulfillment from each day.  Some of the things that have brought me the most happiness lately are:

1)  Cuddling my sweet Aliyah.  She is in a very snuggly phase and I love it.  Each morning when she wakes up, she is all smiles and as soon as I pick her up she wraps her tiny little arms around my neck.  I look forward to it so much every day.




2)  Watching Kaleb dance.  He seriously knows how to shake his little hips and puts his whole body into his "moves."  He knows it will get a good laugh out of Jonny and I, so he does it often and I love it!




3)  The interactions between Kaleb and Aliyah are so fun.  Aliyah laughs so hard at Kaleb when he is being silly.  She watches his every move, just waiting for him to give her his attention.  As soon as he turns to her she lights up and get so excited.  I'm looking forward to the next few months as she gets a little more mobile and they can play even more together.










4)  Nights preceeding mornings when Jonny doesn't have work.  This is generally Friday and Saturday nights, and occasionally a week night.  I am required to stay up until midnight for my job and Jonny works at 4:00 in the morning, so we are on such opposite schedules!  I love it when he can stay up with me and we have a chance to watch a movie or even just talk and have time together without the kids.  Jonny is such an amazing guy and just so much fun to be with.  I really lucked out when he asked me to be his forever!




5)  A prepared meal...especially one that will last for 2 - 3 meals.  I have struggled so much to get in to a good schedule and system for cooking.  I've found some great, healthy recipes recently and I'm getting better at having meals and stuff for meals ready to go.  I love the feeling of making good, healthy food and not having to wonder...what are we going to do for dinner tonight?!

6)  Dressing the kids in super cozy clothes.  The weather has turned nastily cold out of the blue here in Rexburg (which is not an abnormal occurrence) so we've been pulling out the sweats and the fleece.  Today we bought Kaleb 2 sweat outfits and he tried one on this evening.  He looked so snuggly I just wanted to hold him!



7)  Having Kaleb tell me he loves me.  He's been able to say "I love you" for quite a while now, but he would only say it when we would ask him to.  Within the last couple weeks he started saying it just because.  Sometimes I'll look over and smile at him and he'll smile back and say, "I yuv you Mommy."  Oh it just melts my heart!



8)  Getting contracts!  Ok, so I really shouldn't bring work into this, because it isn't exactly a source of great joy in my life...but it really does make my day when I get contracts in.  I have 34 left for winter semester, so thats (hopefully) 34 more little snippits of happiness coming my way!  (The sooner the better)

9)  My time.  So even though I've grumbled quite a bit about staying up until midnight to lock up, it really has become a pretty wonderful blessing for me.  I've set it aside as my time to read and study the scriptures and write in my journal and write love notes to Kaleb and Aliyah in their journals.  I just have to bear my testimony that there is a reason we are counseled to have time for scripture and prayer each day.  I have received so many tender mercies during this time, and I have felt my heart changing.  I really needed this at this time in my life.  The gospel is true and is so incredible!

10)  Hmmm...to finish it off.  I know I've already mentioned a lot of things about Jonny and the kids, but so much of my happiness...the deep, pure, peaceful, life is amazing happiness...comes from knowing that we are a family and we have each other every day and it will never end.  This extends to our parents and siblings as well.  I love being so close to both families and being so blessed by their love and how fabulous it is to have regular interaction with them.  Life is really so sweet right now!  Even though work is frustrating, I am trying to focus on not wishing this stage in life away.  Thank you to all those who contribute to my joy.  I hope you know how amazing you are!

Friday, August 26, 2011

It's been a couple months since I posted last, and I feel like there is so much to catch up on.  I will attempt to be brief :) We finished up the Spring semester feeling pretty good about how everything went.  We both learned a lot from the 3 months of school, work, and adjusting to being a family of 4.  The stress of my job nearly became too much so many times, I'm not sure how I stuck with it but here we are getting ready to start another semester and we're still here!  I want to post a few pictures from the semester and then do a quick recap of our 7 week "break" and then just jot down a few fun things about the kids (for my memory's sake).





















Beginning July 24th and going until September 7th we have the glorious (in most ways) 7 week break.  Jonny doesn't have any classes, and I only have 15 residents.  It has still been a pretty stressful, busy time but it has been awesome to have more time together and to take a couple vacations.  The first weekend in August we had the annual Parkinson family reunion which included a trip to Yellowstone and lots of delicious food and great company :)  Then from the 10th to the 14th of August we had a little vacation in Utah.  We went down for my wonderful friend Kenzi's wedding and had the privilege of spending a few days with Carly, Derek, and Paisley.  We also had an evening and morning with Grandma and Grandpa Hatch which was awesome.

Since time goes by so quickly and I don't have the greatest memory, I want to write a few things about my sweet kids.  I will start with Aliyah.  My fabulous little 4 1/2 month old is so fun and just continues to bring joy to my life.  As you can see from the pictures above, she was chunking up quite nicely for the first couple months, but right around 3 months she started to slim down and get extremely fussy.  All she did for about 3 weeks was scream.  When we took her in for her 4 month well check we found out she had lost weight since her 2 month appointment and after a long conversation with the doctor we determined that I must not provide enough just nursing.  So Aliyah is now getting formula in addition to nursing and we have our happy healthy baby back!  She rolled over both back-to-front and front-to-back tonight for the first time.  She is growing so fast and she just continues to be more and more fun.  Kaleb adores her still and we all enjoy our time together so much.






Now for my spunky little two-year-old.  Life is so fun knowing what is on Kaleb's mind.  He is so silly and loves to share is silly ideas and thoughts with us.  Some of his favorite things right now are plums, trampolines, baseball, making Aliyah laugh, playing outside, and doing his ABC and Number puzzles.  He is learning the alphabet and counting and colors so well.  He loves to be helpful and most of the time he is very obedient and so sweet :)  We recently moved him out of his crib and for now he is sleeping on a mattress on the floor.  He will be getting a bunk bed next week, and we are hoping that will help his sleep a little bit better.  The last few weeks have been characterized by very little sleep since he ends up in our bed every night, sometimes after only an hour or so in his own bed.  It is fun to have him growing up and learning so much.  There are a couple conversations I just have to put in writing so that I don't forget them:

Mom:  I like to call Aliyah "Aloowa"
Kaleb:  I like to call her "Mohawk"

(After Aliyah sneezed twice)
Kaleb:  Aliyah did 2 burps!
Mom:  No, those are called sneezes
Kaleb:  No, those are called "bless-you's"

Oh I love that boy :)